My Boyfriend is addicted to games
I’ve dated my boyfriend for a while now. We’re both adults. His gaming has pushed me away from him more than any of his other actions. I am getting to the point of wondering how much longer I can it. I kept overlooking the time spent on the games because at least the majority of the time he spends it talking to his friends on there. But, I realized over time that he is wasting away his passions and barely participates in anything else.
I can’t even get him to go outside with me. He would rather sit inside at a desk all day staring at fucking screens. I thought we were in love but I am gradually coming to the conclusion that it was a false belief and that I should begin setting myself up for moving on.
He has been there for me in so many ways but has refused to let me be there for him for this. Maybe our needs are simply different. IDK…. I just think it’s time for me to be free of what seems to be toxic in the healthiest way I’ve encountered so far in a relationship.
please reply with your suggestions…
but the other side i was thinking .. loving games and spending alot of time on it i dont know it is not toxic. It is just difference in preference. he spends tons of time playing games with his buddies. He always mentioned to me how important it is to him because it helps him distract from cold reality of life. Everyone copes with life in different ways and that is his. I just think its selfish wanting to make someone stop their favorite hobby just because you dont like it.